Age: 25Hometown: Harlem, NY, NY
Phrase that describes my relationship with money: Concerned
Phrase that describes my parents’…: Careless
My 21-day goal: To spend and save more responsibly
My weakness: Buying things I don't need
My fear for these 21 days: Not being able to follow through
What I will miss most: Dining out/fast food)
Okay, so I am going to keep today's post short and to the point.
Week 1 wasn't a good week for me. As I stated before, fast food is my weakness...and I gave into it many times this past week.
Tuesday - technically on day 1 - I was out and about with my godson and didn't bring any water or snacks out with me. I was miserable and gave in and bought some food from outside the home. This began the rest of the week's downward spiral. Wednesday - Sunday all I did was spend money that really didn't need to be spent.
So, for this week, I am holding myself accountable and will be true to the contract that I signed. I will be praying and asking God for guidance, because the ways that I spend money so frivolously must change.
My goals for this week are to be responsible and to do what I promised: to take responsibility and to get my finances in check.
Frugally Confused, signing off!
My goals for this week are to be responsible and to do what I promised: to take responsibility and to get my finances in check.
Frugally Confused, signing off!
4 comments:
Hi, frugally confused - You and me both. My downward spiral began on day one. I was so out of wack because right after I left the meeting I had a cup of coffee at home. Although my friend said that wasn't bad because it was at home. But the next day morning I did buy a cup only 50 cents but still. Then I bought the oreo cookies which was the second item on my list of things not to have during this 21 day financial fast and lastly I bought the ice cream. I said I would eat it after the end was over. But who was I fooling; I didn't want to blog this out not wanting anyone to fall off their not to do list. But you gave me the courage to tell all. Ha Ha Ha! Anyway, I said I would get back on track but thanks to you I know I am not alone in this endeavor. What I discovered earlier on was it's not easy. First of all, I cheated a little I picked the things that I thought I wouldn't have a problem with and because I am trying to be on a lose weight diet. I thought I would kill two birds with one stone sort. When I fell off it made me take inventory of self and I realized that my decision making process was off. I mean come on! I can't stay away from the things I thought really didn't matter. I like the concept of the fast and for me it would be good if I did it at least 3 times a year just to see where I stand in terms of self determination. Well good luck and stay strong because the benefits are well worth the sacrifice.
For both of you though you fell of the fast it is important to note that you recognized that there was a problem. Instead of denying it or feeling as if nothing was wrong you made a decision to change. This fast is not only a commitment to yourself but to God as well. We are not ever perfect but must always do our best. An important question to ask as we make decisions is to ask "is this the best decision for me?" It is also key to plan ahead. Think about what you have to do the next day the night before to prepare adaquately.
Keep up the good work ladies and remember to just try and plan what you are going to doing for the day. If its the park on weekend bring your plastic bottle and fill up throughout the day. Ziplock bags are great ways to prepare on the go snacks.
Most importantly remember you signed a contract and you are stronger than these desires.
Right now I am at starbuks on 125th drinking coffee from home and water. I got my lunch in a bag and nuts from home. I will get a free re-fill with starbuks cards, but hey its free.
My suggestion is be strong and learn to work the system. Free wi fi and free coffee, I love it.
God Bless!!!
Jamar,
You seem to be taking this very seriously and this is great. It is an indication of your dedication and discipline in other areas of your life. That is awesome.
Desiree
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